I want to record our son Isaac’s birth story before anything becomes forgotten, and have been meaning to do so all week, but truthfully I have been so in awe of him that I havent made the time yet. Hubby is currently out to the store (thank God he took the first 2 weeks off) and I am feeling quite tired but need to stay awake so what better time than now!
We were admitted to the hospital on Sunday, 12/18/16, at 7:30 p.m. for our induction. The nurses that greeted us gave us the biggest and nicest labor room on the floor. The room had a pull out bed for dad, baby warming station, flat screen TV, jetted tub and shower, and of course my hospital bed. Upon arriving, I put on my own special order gown and had my vitals taken. We unpacked our bags and hubby found the ice machine (my best friend!) on the floor.
Around 9 p.m. my nurse inserted my hep lock IV and got me hooked up to the machines. She showed hubby and I how we could monitor my contractions and the babys heartrate if we like. We could adjust the volume easily, and unplug the machine for bathroom use throughout the night. I gave the nurse my birth plan and she eased some of my fears.
By 10 p.m. that night I had my cervix checked and cervidil inserted into it. For the first two hours the meds are in you need to stay laying down. I was about 2 cm dilated and 50% effaced at the time it was inserted. The cervidil was to soften my cervix and is supposed to be left in for 12 hrs. I must say that having it inserted was not a pleasant experience at all. It took about 4 tries for my nurse to get it in the right spot, which she emphasized how important doing so was. Finally, she had success and we were on our way!
I didnt expect to have contractions or major cramping throughout the middle of the night with he cervidil. My OB had said I probably wouldnt feel much, if anything, until the next morning, but by midnight I was both contracting and cramping. I must have unhooked myself from the machine every hour to go pee. The benadryl they gave me to get some sleep was pointless. I was up around the clock.
Around 4 a.m. I began to think shit was getting real. I wanted another cervix check but my nurse convinced me to try and hold off until morning came. At 6 a.m. I literally heard a “pop” and jumped up. Then came the gush. Or gushes I should say. My water broke. It was warm and clear, mixed with blood. Almost immediately after, the pain intensified. I was 4 cm dilated, and wanted to discuss the epidural so I paged my nurse in.
By now, hubby was up and I got on the birthing ball and began practicing deep breaths. The contractions were intense. I wondered how the heck I was going to make it! The anesthesiologist came in and talked to me, and I went over my history of scoliosis wih him the best I could between the contractions, now coming every 3 minutes. He had trouble getting the needle in initially, I believe it took 3 tries.
Minutes after the epidural, my blood pressure plumetted and I felt awful. They said I looked green. They pumped me with some other drugs and eventually got me back to where I needed to be. The epidural eased my pain for the time being, and by noon I was close to 7 cm dilated I believe. Hubby and I got some much needed sleep during this time.
By 4 p.m. my pain level was increasing again, and I kept hitting the damn medicine button hooked up to my IV. It didnt seem to do much after awhile though. I continued to listen to my Circle + Bloom meditational CD and applied some essential oils in hopes of relaxing. I even had a special picture with me for a focal point.
The nurse and midwife decided to give me a low dose of Pitocin to see if we could speed things up a bit. They also decided to monitor my contractions internally instead of just externally. So some other contraption was put inside of me.
By 6 p.m., I was 10 cm dilated and in major pain. The epidural from the morning had long worn off and I was cursing the world. I had been pushing on and off for a good hour, and hubby and the team saw Miracle’s head several times. I heard the machines going off like something was wrong consistently when pushing.
I kept asking about baby, and he was doing just fine as it appeared on the screen. I was the one in distress, not him. The machines were beeeping like crazy because of my heartrate. It was accelerating a lot, at times up to 170. The team was not happy with this at all, and my OB was called in to do a c-section right away.
I started crying. It had been a long 20 something hours of labor only to have to be operated on. I felt like such a failure in that moment. Why didnt I just opt for the c-section in the first place? Thankfully everyone around me came together to make me realize it wasnt my fault and all I remember thinking was ‘please God, get my baby here soon.’
The anesthesiologist quickly gave me another epidural, and some other drugs for blood pressure, nausea, and anxiety, and we were being wheeled off. The epidural started working, and they were scrubbing me off as I shook and chattered my teeth. My speech was slurred, my eyes half closed, and I was really feeling drugged up. I remember I kept asking if baby was okay. I always heard how great he was doing back. Hubby was next to me holding my hand the whole time.
I felt a decent amount of tugging and pulling, and medical jargon talk in the background. Lots of “almost there” and “I can see him” pep talks being given to me. Intense feelings of being smashed on top of my chest followed. Then at 6:57 p.m., I heard the sound I have been waiting to hear for almost a decade, our sweet rainbow baby crying.
I started crying instantly and I heard the team laughing about how he was peeing as they pulled him out. Hubby got to cut the cord and he received his perfect Apgar score. He was then brought over to see me. I couldnt believe it. Finally.
Congratulations! Enjoy your christmas baby! Xoxox
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Thank u! Enjoying every minute!
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Congratulations!!
What a lovely birth story, I am sniflfing :))
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Aw thank u!
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Congratulations! I was in tears as I was reading this. I’m so happy for you and I can’t wait to meet my own rainbow in just a few weeks. God Bless.
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Thanks dear! And best of wishes as you deliver your sweet rainbow soon ❤️
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OMG. I felt I was reliving my 2 pregnancy with your pain , knowing that Isaac was healthy was such a relief but what you experienced was not. I’m so happy for you both and Isaac is here and healthy. Congrats.
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Oh the pain! But yes, having him here safe & sound makes it all disappear. Thank you for all your support my friend ❤️
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Amazing! So good to have it all written down so you will have all the memories and will not forget. Thank you for sharing with us, so glad everyone is happy and healthy. Love the first family picture 🙂
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You are welcome & thank u for taking the time to read all about it ! Hope u are doin great!
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I’m so happy he made it safely! I hope you are recovering well. And of course enjoying every second!! Hugs.
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Thank u! We are getting in the groove of no sleep haha…but he is worth every second! Hope u are well too ❤️
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Many congratulations on the safe arrival of Isaac! How wonderful. Xx
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Thanks love! Cant wait to hear all about yours soon!
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Wow…what a story! So happy he is here safe and sound and I hope you are recovering well!
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Yes, it was quite a time being in labor! Recovery is getting better each day, thank you!
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What a birth story! I’m so happy for you that you have your sweet little boy here!! Congratulations! I hope you and baby are still doing well and settling into your new roles. Much love ❤️
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Thank u! We are adjusting well, he was so worth the wait! 💙💙
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I’m so glad he’s here safe and sound and that you’re both doing well. Thank you for sharing!
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Thank u! Me too!! I hope u are doing well ❤️
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Awww welcome little Isaac!!! A beautiful story 😊
my goodness that cervadil- that stuff hurts soooo much going in, I totally feel your pain!!!
It’s really interesting to read your story because we started our inductions at the same time of night and similar dilation, but you progressed just a little bit quicker!!! It must have been quite terrifying with all those alarms going off and needing an unplanned c-section, you seemed to deal with that really well.
I hope you are recovering well and enjoying your little bundle of rainbow cuteness Xx
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Our stories are so similar it is crazy! You did an amazing job, I wanted my story to end as yours did so badly (vaginal delivery), but not all things go as we want them. In the end it doesnt matter bc we are so blessed having our child here with us…he is simply amazing as Im sure your little girl is too 💕
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Beautiful birth story !!! You are by no means a failure for having a c-section! Your a MOM!!! It takes alot of strength and courage to hand over the birthing process and a part of being a mom is always doing what is best for your baby and you did JUST THAT! Whatever you had to do to get your sweet boy in your arms safely was what was BEST! Sounds like you had a long hard labor, you got to be pregnant, feel him kick, hear his everlasting heat beat, feel the hooorrriiibblllleee but satisfying labor pains and have it all end with sweet boy in your arms ! I’m sooooooooooo overjoyed for you and so glad to hear your just soaking in every moment and second !!
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Thanks so much! I hope u are doing well and have a wonderful 2017 ❤️
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Congratulations! So happy to hear everyone is healthy and home. Enjoy your miracle!
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Thanks dear! Hope u are well, Happiest New Year!
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omg congratulations!
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Thank u!
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Congratulations! Sorry you ended up having to get a c-section after such a long labor. Hope you’re recovering well. Lots of love to you and the little guy!
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Ugh, yes that part really stunk! Recovery us going good thankfully. Thank you!
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Omg!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!!! What a story!!! I’m extremely happy for you!!
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Thank you & best of luck on your delivery!
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I’m so excited yet nervous and scared!! I think not knowing when is adding to it!
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Amazing! Congratulations! And that picture of you three is so amazing!!!
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Thank u!
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What an awesome story! I’ve been meaning to write down my own birth story, very similar to yours. I was in labor 22 hours (17 of those without an epidural) before they performed an emergency c-section. Congratulations on your beautiful rainbow baby!!!
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Oh my! The things we endure to have our baby hey? Same to you!
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